Wednesday, January 7, 2015

The International Wedding Trend Report




Happy New Year to all our readers. Well it is the first day back in the hot seat in the office after a lovely two week break and I am currently coming to you from the sunny shores of Sydney as I’m working with our Aussie campus for the next couple of weeks before heading home. However, I do have something rather exciting to share with you all, our International Wedding Trend Report for 2015.
I have been busy working with Advisory Board members across our four campuses in Australia, New Zealand the US and right here in the UK to bring you the most comprehensive and detailed report in the wedding industry, which covers trends for weddings in 2015 and 2016 across the world. Together with our team of wedding experts we have compiled a report that covers all aspects of planning and styling a wedding, so you can use it as a reference point with your client to let them know what’s going to be trending in our wonderful world of weddings over the next 12 months. We’ve included:
Themes
Colours
Catering, Cocktails and Cakes
Venues and Locations
Music and Entertainment
Luxury Linens
Styling and Decor
Floral Design
Stationery
As well as the detailed 67 page report we’ve also produced five videos which we will be releasing each week until the end of January covering the highlights of each segment covered in the report. Today’s video covers the key trends, where and how we conducted our research and how to use the trends within your own client weddings.
- See more at: http://www.weddingplanningacademy.co.uk/latest-news/the-international-wedding-trend-report/#sthash.3IrwZXcX.dpuf

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth Split Rumors Continue, but Look Back at Their Road to Romance


Miley Cyrus, Liam Hemsworth
Yes, there certainly are rumors that Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth have called off their engagement. But this isn't the first time their relationship has been called into question by the media.
The couple's reps have not yet responded to E! News' requests for comment. But Miley tweeted just last week that she's "not discussing anything but my music from now on."
UPDATE: A source tells E! News that while things "have been rocky," they "both want it to work" and "are not giving up" on their relationship.
So, let's be optimistic and take a look at Miley and Liam's romance—so far!
Miley dyes her hair "platinum" blue! Do you like?

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June 2009: Miley and Liam meet for the first time while filming The Last Song in Tybee Island, Ga. Rumors that their onscreen romance translated to a real-life love begin to circulate.
March 2010: Finally, at the movie's premiere, Miley and Liam confirm they're dating and walk their first joint red carpet.
August 2010: After a year of dating, the couple briefly call it quits.
Cute! Miley gives Mickey Mouse a makeover
September 2010: Not to worry, though! Just a month later, sources tell People Miley and Liam are back together.
November 2010: Slight bump in the road here. Sources tell E! News the duo "are, and have been taking a break." But an insider adds, "Don't be surprised if they get back together."
March 2011: Can't keep these lovebirds apart! Sources tell E! News Miley and Liam are "hanging out a lot" but they're "taking it slow and just enjoying each other's company."
Miley signs with Britney Spears' manager
Miley Cyrus, Liam Hemsworth
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Dec. 11, 2011: Phew, definitely together. Miley and Liam walk the carpet together at CNN Heroes: An All-Star Tribute in L.A., completely confirming their recoupled status.
March 2012: Miley is spotted wearing a stunning topaz ring on that finger. People quickly begin to speculate, but Miley takes to Twitter to clear things up, writing, "I'm not engaged…I've worn this same ring on this finger since November! People just wanna find something to talk about! It's a topaz people!"
Miley Cyrus, Liam Hemsworth
Check out Miley's style evolution through the years
June 6, 2012: Bling bling bling! Miley and Liam confirm they're engaged. "I'm so happy to be engaged and look forward to a life of happiness with Liam," the bride-to-be says.
November 2012:  Miley sets the record straight on her upcoming nuptials on The Ellen DeGeneres Show. "There is some rumor going around that I'm having, like, 47 weddings," she says. "I'm not. I'm having one wedding. That's my day and whatever I want on that day will be about me and that moment. That look of love."
How cute are Miley and Liam on their Costa Rican vacay?

Michael Buckner/WireImage; Courtesy: Neil Lane
February 2013: Blogger Perez Hilton tweets that Miley is cheating on Liam with Ed Westwick. Miley fires back, telling him she's "never been with Ed W in my life" and calling him out on his hypocrisy and "promise to spread love not lies." She later tells E! News if Perez stirs up trouble again, "I'll whoop his ass."
Miley Cyrus, Liam Hemsworth, Engagement Ring
Feb. 24, 2013: Miley and Liam attend separate Oscars parties (because mama Tish Cyrus wanted to go to Elton John's fête with her daughter) fueling the breakup rumors—again. Despite tabloid reports to the contrary, a source close to Miley tells E! News she and Liam "are totally together."
March 2013: Miley steps out without her engagement ring in L.A., but slams "lies" that her and Liam's relationship is in trouble. She focuses on her music in L.A. while Liam takes a holiday in his native Australia. Regardless of speculation, a source tells E! News things are "fine between them."

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Top 5 tips from celebrity wedding planners


When you’re planning your big day, receiving tips and advice from married couples who have done it all before can be invaluable, but what about the advice from a famous wedding planner who has seen countless weddings? Wedding planners to the stars have dealt with some of the biggest names in the industry, and with that comes big demands.
Top 5 tips from celebrity wedding planners
So be sure to read their top tips from the A-list world to assist and encourage your wedding planning.
David Tutera
American celebrity wedding planner, who has been awarded Best Celebrity Wedding Planner by Life & Style magazine, knows a thing or two about weddings. Having worked with stars including Jennifer Lopez and Elton John, he has the best event and wedding advice in the business. On couples planning their big day, Tutera says "they have to tell a story, there has to be personality and heart." He advises couples not to be too safe and to instead "step outside the box". He says brides can often be nervous that they’re going to do something wrong but instead he advises that they should make their wedding "interesting and make it about them." Sounds like good advice to us!
Mindy Weiss
Pink, Eva Longoria and Gwen Stefani are just some of the A-list names that this much adored after event planner can call her clients. Mindy Weiss has planned some of the biggest weddings in the industry, including that of Katy Perry and Russell Brand, and Heidi Klum and Seal. But what advice does Weiss have to offer? She stresses the importance of communication; "It's really important that you're honest with each other as a couple during the wedding planning process." She also feels that personality, detail and entertainment are key to weddings. Just a glance at her website will inspire your wedding planning as her work is so creative and beautiful. Described as one of the most sought-after and well-known wedding planners in the world and one of the top five wedding planners in the United States by The New York Times, we say trust her advice!
Sarah Haywood
Sarah Haywood is an "award-winning, internationally acclaimed British luxury wedding planner and best-selling bridal author". She is considered Britain's most sought-after wedding planner and is the author of the highly acclaimed Wedding Bible, which has helped countless brides plan their dream day. Sarah outlines "the big five" decisions for those starting out on their wedding planning journey; how will you get married; where would you like to get married; when would you like to marry; who will you invite and how much can you afford to spend? Her top tips include; "Delegate what you can to friends and family who have skills in areas you need help with" and "Do not hire anyone or anything until you have seen or sampled their wares".
Colin Cowie
With big names including Jennifer Aniston, Tom Cruise and Oprah Winfrey under his belt, Colin Cowie has seen it all when it comes to event planning and weddings. His wedding designs are creative and artistic, but no matter how beautiful your wedding day looks, Colin Cowie feels that "the comfort of your guests is most important … How you treat your guests and make them welcome is more important than the food you serve or the dress you wear." He is known for his attention to detail and his focus on what he calls the "JDM"; the jaw dropping moment, which he feels every wedding should have.
Preston Bailey
Event and wedding planner to the stars, Preston Bailey, is behind some of the most memorable weddings in the celebrity world. He has worked with the likes of Jennifer Hudson, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones and Donna Karan. His big tip is to keep things simple and to remember that your wedding is a celebration; "relax, stay in the moment and have a good time." He also likes his clients to remember that they can’t have it all. He advises to prioritise your most important features and focus on those, otherwise wedding planning and ideas can easily spin out of control.
resource:http://www.herworldplus.com/celebs/updates/top-5-tips-celebrity-wedding-planners

Top 10 wedding memories


Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life which you’ll undoubtedly remember forever, but it’s all those individual moments throughout your day that make it so memorable.
Here are the top 10 most perfect memories you will have of your wedding day.
Top 10 wedding memories
1. When you wake up
Just like when you were little and you woke on the morning of your birthday or Christmas Day, you will certainly experience the same butterflies and feelings of excitement on the morning of your wedding. ‘It’s here! It’s here!’ Cherish these first few moments as from this point on it’s all go go go!
2. Looking in the mirror
If you are having your hair and make-up done for your wedding then you’ll be touched and tweaked all morning. Even when it’s time to put your wedding dress on, your bridesmaids will be helping you to get into it. But that moment you have to yourself when you look into the mirror for the first time, taking in the image of you as a bride should be a moment you’ll remember for many years to come.
3. When the wedding car arrives
All morning you will have been non-stop: collecting the flowers, going to the salon, getting ready. So the moment your wedding car arrives to whisk you away to the ceremony, the nerves can really kick in and stir a reaction. This marks the start of proceedings and signifies that your wedding really is beginning. If you’ve been feeling nervous then you can almost pretend you’re just getting ready for a Christening or other special occasion, but the moment that car arrives it all becomes real.
4. The groom laying eyes on you
We all remember that moment when Catherine Middleton walked down the aisle to meet her future husband. Cheeky Prince Harry turned around for a glance at the beyond-beautiful-bride, while Prince William kept his word to Kate and did not dare look. But the moment the groom claps eyes on the bride, it is magnetic. Relish in this moment and remember how adored it made you feel.
5. Being given away
Whoever is giving you away at your wedding, whether it’s your mum, dad, uncle or stepfather, it’s a very special moment. Be sure to really take your time when you walk down the aisle, taking it all in. Make a memory at the moment when you’re given away – the feel of their cheek on yours as you kiss and the touch of their hand around yours. They will most probably be doing the same.
6. "I do"
The entire day hangs on those two words, ‘I do’. When this moment comes, be sure to savour it and say the words with meaning. Saying these words means a hell of a lot – that you promise to love and care for your partner and be there for them always. A brief moment perhaps, but what a beautiful one to look back on?
7. Being announced as "Mr and Mrs"
After the ceremony, the photographs and the drinks reception comes the much-awaited wedding breakfast. It is customary for the bride and groom to be announced here for the first time as "Mr and Mrs". This normally results in a cheer and round of applause from the guests. Remember this moment and how happy you felt being announced as your new collective name.
8. First dance
The first dance is probably one of the only moments during the whole wedding day that the happy couple has to themselves. No one can interrupt during their first dance as it is just about the two of them. Delight in this moment and recognise it as one of those perfect wedding memories, as you sway cheek to cheek to your favourite song.
9. Watching your guests dance
When your feet are aching and you fancy a break (glass of bubbly still in hand, of course) then watch your wedding guests having a ball. It’s not often you’ll get all of your friends, colleagues, family and neighbours in one room dancing the night away and having a good time. Sit, watch and relish everyone enjoying themselves in celebration of your wedding.
10. End of the night
Boy, what a day! Shoes off, last tipple, the pressure’s now off. You’ll be feeling relaxed and reflective over the hours that have passed. This perfect moment at the end of your big day is one to be remembered. You’ll have that glow from dancing the night away, the tranquility now that any nerves have subsided and the contentment that you’re now married to the person you love. Ahh!
resource:http://www.herworldplus.com/weddings/wedding-advice/top-10-wedding-memories

Exclusive New Year’s Eve Wedding


This wedding was like no other – literally!  Mairead, our bride, was part of the Norman Flynn Design team that converted a Dartmouth warehouse into a stunning sales office and showroom for the new King’s Wharf properties.  This special priviledge gave us exclusive access to use it for her New Year’s Eve wedding to Andrew.

There are not many minimalist, raw spaces in the city so it was jaw dropping, drool worthy for us to create within it.  (NOTE: if you haven’t seen King’s Wharf yet – you really want to)  From Day 1 Mairead knew she wanted a large “feasting table” for 100 guests in front of the exposed brick wall and we couldn’t have agreed more.  There were so many personal touches from the collection of candle sticks from family friends, to the custom light fixture from Norma Flynn, the grand cake made by Andrew’s mom, to custom monogrammed french aprons, personalized wine labels and so much more!
Here are a few pictures from this peacock inspired wedding taken by the fabulous photography team of Jeff & Jenn at Jeff Cooke Photography.  For the complete collection of the day (and by complete I mean LOTS AND LOTS of pictures) jump over to Jeff’s site here. COMPLETE STORY

Friday, March 8, 2013

Vote Now for the Brides Live Wedding Dress!



Brides Live Wedding Dress - Oleg Cassini Photo: Leigh Miller Photography
**UPDATE: This voting category has closed! Check out all of the winning items and vote for the current wedding detail on Facebook.**
The centerpiece to every wedding is a gorgeous gown, and Brides editors and the experts at David's Bridal teamed up to pick four of the prettiest, stand out dresses for our Brides Live Wedding winner Briana! Whether it's the silk taffeta confection with tiered skirt, dramatic tulle one-shoulder, glam ballgown, or glitzy fit-and-flare, each dress from David's Bridal makes its own distinct wedding style statement. It would be difficult for any bride to choose, but luckily our beautiful bride has your help! Click on your favorite dress above to vote, or visit the Brides Live Wedding app on Facebook to learn more about each!
Check back regularly as we reveal more voting categories, and click here to see the winning wedding décor. Voting on the wedding bouquet begins March 1!

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Local vendors help plan eco-friendly weddings


KNOXVILLE, Tenn. (AP) — Most brides want to be dressed in white, or some shade of ivory, cream or champagne, as they walk down the aisle.
But more are choosing to add green to their wedding day.
As people become more aware of ways to protect the environment and to save money, so do brides and wedding vendors.
Rai-Lynne Alexander of West Knoxville makes eco-friendly wedding dresses from organic fabrics.
Her business, Threadhead Creations, which she runs out of her home, doesn't serve typical brides.
"They are all brides doing green weddings," Alexander said. "It's all for one big day, but weddings can be incredibly wasteful."
From the dress to flowers, decorations, food and transportation, couples can find ways to make their big day less wasteful, more environmentally friendly and, in some cases, less expensive.
Flowers that live forever
Leah Teague, owner of Flourish Floral Design Studio, and Sarah Brobst, volunteer coordinator at Ijams Nature Center, make bridal bouquets from brooches, fabric or paper to save on floral waste.
A brooch bouquet, which is gaining popularity due to Pinterest and Etsy, is made of vintage brooches and broken jewelry. Sometimes handmade fabric flowers serve as a base.
Brides are turning to these alternative bouquets because they are unique, can be personalized and last forever. They can be passed to future generations, and they're easy and pretty to display.
"You have something you can keep, one that doesn't mold or rot," Brobst said. "And they're made from things that would be in a landfill. Pins are broken or you have one clip-on earring — who wears that?"
Brobst, who began making brooch bouquets in January and already has orders from eight brides, buys brooches at thrift stores or flea markets. Sometimes brides collect brooches from family members.
If a bride doesn't have a favorite flower, a brooch or paper bouquet could be a great option.
"They're really easy to personalize," Teague said. "One bride was an avid reader. For the paper flower accents, we used a lot of vintage books."
Teague said brides can use these alternative bouquets for bridesmaids, mothers' corsages or centerpieces. Then, they become a gift.
Though 95 percent of her business is still cut flowers, Teague said it's hard to see beautiful flowers tossed away after only a few hours.
Brooch bouquets are more expensive than cut flower bouquets because of materials and labor. Brobst said it takes several weeks to collect materials for and assemble a medium-sized brooch bouquet. She charges between $150 and $500 depending on size and number of brooches. Teague charges an average of $250 to $300.
Morgan Buccafusco didn't have real flowers at her Feb. 29th wedding. She carried one of Brobst's brooch bouquets.
"I didn't want to spend money on something that didn't last," Buccafusco said. "I wanted something more unique. Not having flowers is pretty unique."
Plus, the vintage brooch bouquet went perfectly with her vintage-style dress.
Brobst said the bouquets can fit any wedding style, not just vintage. She can make them romantic, Victorian, "bling-y" and industrial.
"People don't realize they have a lot more options than just a rose bouquet," Teague said. "Weddings don't have as many rules as they used to. Girls are just looking to make it their own."
If brides use real flowers, Teague recommends donating them to Random Acts of Flowers, a local organization that collects flowers from events and gives them to hospitals and nursing homes.
Dress for the environment
A wedding dress doesn't have to be seafoam, lime or teal to be green.
Alexander's dresses are usually white or ivory, but they are eco-friendly due to fabric she uses. Most of her fabrics are hemp-silk blends, and the silk is "wild or peace" silk.
"They let the silk moths emerge from their cocoons before they harvest the silk," Alexander said. With traditional silk, the moths are destroyed.
The hemp or cotton she uses is grown without herbicides or pesticides and is certified organic.
She began making eco-friendly sundresses and ready-to-wear items for college students and concertgoers in 1999. Several years later some customers asked if she could make eco-friendly wedding dresses. She made her first one in 2003, and, after nicer eco-friendly fabrics emerged, she moved to "green" wedding dresses full-time in 2006.
She's seen a shift in the mind-set of her customers as more brides are looking for greener wedding options.
"(At first,) they were buying from me because they wanted custom (dresses) or they had bought from me before," Alexander said. "Now, they're searching me out by searching for eco-friendly wedding dresses. They're finding me because they are doing a green wedding."
She sells her dresses internationally. They cost between $500 and $1,500.
A few dresses feature a touch of color as some have cherry blossoms, forest designs or yellow daisies on them.
Her husband, an artist and photographer, helps with the designs.
Alexander keeps her business green by using recycled packaging, reducing paper waste with digital invoices and repurposing scraps for samples, dog toys and pillows.
Green weddings
Weddings are a great time to repurpose items found in the closet, at a garage sale or thrift store.
One of Teague's brides used teacups from her grandmother's china for flower planters on each table, and brides could use mason jars as votives for candles.
Teague said about 75 percent of her brides are taking a greener approach to wedding planning.
"Whether it's for financial reasons or their own personal style, it's very on-trend right now to use these reclaimed items," Teague said.
Rita Cochran, who does rental and special events for Ijams, said a 10-cent vintage floral sheet from the thrift store could make table runners.
"You need to think outside the box and when you see a teacup, you see a planter," Cochran said.
Buccafusco collected rocks from a nearby creek and used decoupage to put people's names on them. Those became place cards and a keepsake for guests.
For invitations, she and husband Mike Dearing used recycled paper and saved paper by having people email RSVPs.
They had the ceremony and reception at a bed and breakfast so people didn't need to drive.
Cochran runs a catering business on the side called Public Food that uses locally grown and made foods. She encourages people to make jam or pickle vegetables as wedding favors, use local breweries or shop farmers' markets. Brides can make jewelry for their bridesmaids by repurposing vintage jewelry, Brobst said.
Going green and repurposing items can save a bride and groom money.
"It's about asking friends, 'This is what I'm thinking, what do you have in your closet?'" Brobst said. And the last weekend of the month Goodwill sells everything half off, Brobst said.
Going green and repurposing items can make a wedding more personal. Brides are shying away from traditional, formal weddings to plan events that better fit their personalties, Teague said.
"A lot of things can be used that are already out there," Teague said. "Maybe they weren't made for a wedding, but they can be turned into something. Anytime you can use something you already have and love, it makes it that much more personal and meaningful."
resource:http://www.knoxnews.com/news/2012/may/14/local-vendors-help-plan-eco-friendly-weddings/

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Ulrika Jonsson renews her wedding vows in Caribbean beach ceremony


TV presenter, Ulrika Jonsson, renewed her wedding vows with her third husband, Brian Monet, in a stunning beachside ceremony on the sun soaked Caribbean island of Barbados. The happy occasion is featured in a full glossy magazine spread complete with exclusive interview.
Speaking in the Hello magazine interview to accompany the vow renewal photo shoot, the 44-year-old mother of four revealed the Barbados vow renewal ceremony provided a chance for her and her husband of 4 years to celebrate after a difficult period. The TV personality admitted she has been suffering from a painful back condition which has led her to suffer a bout of depression. However the blonde presenter said that the troublesome period has brought her and husband Brian Monet closer as a result.     
The former Gladiators Presenter chose a simple pale gold gown for the intimate beach ceremony while Ulrika’s daughters, Bo aged 11 and Martha aged 8 and the couple’s 3-year-old son Malcolm were dressed in matching gold and ivory outfits. The Swedish born TV star’s 17-year-old son, Cameron, from her first marriage to John Turnball, missed out on the vow renewal.
Ulrika married third husband Brian Monet in 2008 after the couple got engaged the previous year. Prior to that the former weather girl was married to Lance Gerrard-Wright whom she met on a dating show, Mr Right, on which she was the host. In 1990 she married John Turnball but the marriage lasted five years.
Short URL: http://www.wedding-news.co.uk/?p=2895

Knightley to marry Klaxons keyboardist James Righton




Let the celebrations begin! Hollywood star Keira Knightley has announced her engagement to Klaxons keyboardist James Righton as fans eagerly await more details on the upcoming wedding. The couple, who were introduced to each other by TV presenter friend Alexa Chung, have been together for 15 months.
The 27-year-old Oscar-nominated actress has starred in several films including Atonement and the first three instalments of Pirates Of The Caribbean. Knightley will soon begin filming for her next movie Can A Song Save Your Life? where she stars as a wannabe singer. The British actress is also the face of Chanel’s Coco Mademoiselle fragrance.
Knightley’s spokesperson confirmed the engagement on Friday 25 May: “I can confirm that Keira is engaged to be married to James Righton”.
Righton, keyboardist for rock band Klaxons, won the Mercury Prize 2007 with the band’s debut album Myths of the Near Future. Klaxons is currently working on their new album.
The couple’s wedding plans and details of the proposal are being kept strictly under wraps. Knightley’s publicist added:
“We are not discussing any further details.”
Keira Knightley and James Righton aren’t the only ones looking to get hitched. It’s the summer of celebrity engagements with big names such as Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, and Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel also deciding to take the plunge.
Short URL: http://www.wedding-news.co.uk/?p=2898

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Royal Wedding Programme

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All profits from the sale of the Official Programme will go to the Foundation of Prince William and Prince Harry.

A limited number of Official Programmes for the Marriage of H.R.H Prince William of Wales, K.G. with Miss Catherine Middleton, are available for sale.
The programme was on sale on The Mall and surrounding areas on the day of the Royal Wedding. The Programme is 28 pages long and includes a message from the couple, an illustrated map and timetable of the day, the Order of Service, details of the Carriage Procession, information on Westminster Abbey and the Coats of Arms, and a newly released image of the couple taken by Mario Testino.
All profits from the sale of the Official Programme will go to the Foundation of Prince William and Prince Harry.
For more information, click here.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Wedding Flower

A flower, sometimes known as a bloom or blossom, is the reproductive structure found in flowering plants (plants of the division Magnoliophyta, also called angiosperms). The biological function of a flower is to effect reproduction, usually by providing a mechanism for the union of sperm with eggs. Flowers may facilitate outcrossing (fusion of sperm and eggs from different individuals in a population) or allow selfing (fusion of sperm and egg from the same flower). Some flowers produce diaspores without fertilization (parthenocarpy). Flowers contain sporangia and are the site where gametophytes develop. Flowers give rise to fruit and seeds. Many flowers have evolved to be attractive to animals, so as to cause them to be vectors for the transfer of pollen.
You wedding flowers help set the tone for your wedding day. Here, you'll find hundreds of photos of wedding flowers, including wedding bouquets for you and your bridesmaids, wedding cake flowers, floral centerpieces, and even DIY wedding flower ideas. You can also search our photo galleries for wedding flowers by season or by color.
Read more : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flower

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Friday, March 9, 2012

Valentine’s Day weddings: Making cupid proud at the courthouse


There were no limousines. No bridesmaids. No DJs or caterers or 300-person receptions.
Just 12 couples, a podium and a county clerk. And vows, recited across clasped hands. Better or worse. Sickness and health. They promised to endure it all.

Solimar Alvez marries Walter Lachewitz Jr. at the courthouse in Annapolis on Feb. 14, 2012. See a gallery of photos after the jump. (Marvin Joseph - WASHINGTON POST)
“There’s no better day to get married than Valentine’s Day,” said Robert Duckworth, clerk of the Circuit Court of Anne Arundel County as he began his fourth wedding yesterday, just before 10:30 a.m. “And there’s no better gift to give each other than love.”
A courthouse might not seem like the epicenter of romance. Instead of arches and ushers, there are metal detectors and security guards. But where else (outside of Vegas) can a couple just show up and legally bond themselves to each other? It’s first come, first serve, so if there’s a crowd, your wedding might have to wait.
But the line moves quickly, and on Valentine’s day no one seems to mind the delay. Plus, a few entrepreneurial office workers set up a bake sale to satiate the masses.


Ryan McHenry, in a strapless cream gown and pearls, pressed her lips together as Matthew Byczkowski read the words he’d written to her from his iPhone. In response she pulled a folded paper out of the bust of her dress.
“My final vow,” she told him, “is to always be an avid and loyal Ravens fan. I’ll be sitting right next to you on the couch.” They picked up their toddler daughter and infant son, and led a parade of family to pose for pictures on a nearby lawn.
One couple requested a ceremony in Spanish. Another met through the Internet while she was living in Brazil and he was in Maryland. One pair wheeled their 10-week-old baby in a stroller. Another brought three of their four adult children.
Robert Duckworth didn’t know weddings would be such a big part of his job when he joined the Circuit Court 21 years ago. But he’s presided over more than 7,000 nuptials, and lobbied for the renovation of ceremony room that now has vaulted ceilings, church pews and soft lighting. “I don’t like them to be bureaucratic,” he said of the weddings. “I like them to be special.”
Just before 3 p.m. he pronounced Walter Lachewitz Jr. and Solimar Alvez husband and wife. The groom, in a charcoal suit, kissed his new wife, who wore a red dress, white satin gloves and rhinestone bangles.

Friday, January 6, 2012

An engagement ring’s many meanings


Anonymous
So which is it — “like any other gift” or “about love and commitment”? If it’s the former, then there are no commitment strings attached; if it’s the later, then it’s not like any other gift.
Plus, unless your Control Freaks Anonymous meeting does a Secret Santa, most gifts arrive free of the expectation that you’ll wear them every day for the rest of your life.
As with so many aspects of intimate life, an engagement ring has no one meaning that applies to all. Some see a gift of love, some see an icky assertion of ownership. Social climbers will see one thing, the courts will see another, and a crusader against blood diamonds will see another.
If one bride sees romance and devotion in wearing her fiance’s choice of ring, and another wants the same say she’d have in any other investment, and another is concerned that she can’t wear Tiffany-set stones because she wears gloves at work, and another wants no part of diamonds and would rather put the money toward something both bride and groom can enjoy, then I’m not going to scold any of them for failing to toe some imaginary line.
This is about all I’m willing to say: Don’t be greedy, and don’t dismiss disagreements over engagement-ring ethics. As with so many things, again, there’s a chance to weigh character here. Never knowingly skip one of those.
Dear Carolyn:
I have a friend who manages to work the word “rape” into a large number of conversations. This is incredibly triggering for me, and I don’t appreciate her making light of such a difficult thing. I’ve asked her not to say it a few times, but I don’t want to make it obvious how much distress it causes me.
In her defense, she knows nothing of my past. Even so, I feel like it’s an inappropriate word to throw around, regardless of whom you’re around. How do I let her know this makes me uncomfortable without telling her things about myself that I’m not ready to reveal? (Especially to someone who treats it as a joke.)
M.
Interesting friend you have.
You can tell the truth without noting that it’s your truth. “Please be more careful with your choice of words. Throwing the word ‘rape’ around lightly is offensive, particularly to victims of sexual assault.”
She: “Oh, it’s just an expression.”
You: “With all due respect — no, it’s not. And is it really a word you can’t live without?”
If she comes back at you with a pry-O-gram about whether you’re speaking from experience, point out — again, truthfully, if not whole-truthfully — that that’s not what you said, you’re merely making a general statement.
Also, please use any further resistance on her part as a cue to read her nutritional label; friends with a low decency content need to be treated as junk food, not as the stuff that sustains you.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

B.I.O.: Katy Marshall, John Winstead



Katy, 29, is a meeting and event planner. John, 32, is a compliance specialist at the U.S. Department of Labor. They'll live in Arlington after the wedding.

First Kiss: "On his living room sofa, right after I trashed him playing Wii."

How He Proposed: After dinner, he proposed on the sidewalk by their car. "I was going to propose at the restaurant, but it was too crowded and loud. At one point Katy went to the restroom and I pulled out the ring box, but then stuck it back into my pocket, to the chagrin of the watching college kids at the next table."

Pet Names: He calls her "sweet pea" and she calls him "lovey bear."



Stupidest Fight: Over what time they should have left for a day trip.

Wedding engagement season is in full swing with flurry of holiday marriage proposals






Perhaps you still call this time of year Christmas. Or Hanukkah. Or, generically, “the holidays.”
If so, you haven’t been paying attention. Unconsciously, you’ve tuned out the insidious loop of diamond ads and ignored the pretty little boxes in every storefront window.
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This, friend, is “engagement season.” And to those in the wedding industry, it’s only the eve of their most wonderful time of the year. For December rings, they know, bring January cha-chings.

January has become the month-long equivalent of Black Friday in the wedding world. After a rush of holiday proposals, wedding Web sites will see huge spikes in traffic, as bridal expos crank into gear across the country and glossy magazines with hundreds of ads and intimidating “to-do” lists fly off the shelves. With a quick flip of the calendar, the wedding-planning bonanza is underway.
According to WeddingWire, a Bethesda company that provides technology for the wedding industry, 33 percent of engagements happen between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. Families are together, sparkly lights abound and people are in the mood to unwrap things.
And if a guy’s gonna pop the question eventually, he might as well use the opportunity to avoid shopping for a holiday gift and kill two birds with — ahem — one stone. Plenty of Web sites offer ideas on executing the perfect holiday proposal: Play Santa! Hang it on an ornament! Spell it out in lights on your roof!
And, of course, the jewelers of America have done their part to reinforce the expectation of a diamond ring under the Christmas tree. In the past month, message boards lit up with postings by young women speculating on whether they’ll get engaged over the holidays. “My [significant other] told me on new years eve that I would be engaged this year,” one woman who goes by the user name kribbie wrote on PriceScope, an online diamond buying guide. “Well, since there are only a few days left til new years 2012, I’m hoping he keeps his promise.
Every year I despise the holidays more and more,” bemoans another who calls herself sweetpepsigirl. “The commercials make it hard, too. It’s like they KNOW I want a ring for Christmas.”
Never mind that she’s been in a relationship for only six months and “definitely knows there isn’t a ring in my immediate future. *sigh.*”
Still, she benevolently sprinkles digital fairy dust on the other would-be brides, typing “********dust*******” to bid them good luck with their proposal wishes. And when those diamond dreams come true, the newly engaged won’t bask in the ring’s glow for long before cranking up the nuptial machinery.
Naturally, the wedding industry will be at the ready. It didn’t become a $70 billion business because its purveyors spend a lot of time sitting on their heels, after all.
Bride Magazine’s January edition — which sold 250 ad pages this year, compared with the 40 or so ad pages most women’s magazines will have for the month — is always its best-selling issue. Big-name dress designers parade through bridal salons for trunk shows while retailers that offer wedding registries are already planning events for newly engaged couples to check out the goods.

Sunday, December 4, 2011

‘You’re never gonna find two people who had such a nontraditional love affair’


(Barbara Kinney/ BARBARA KINNEY ) - Newlyweds Ian Alberg and Mary Morrison walk down the aisle after being married November 5, 2011 in a ceremony at the Sixth & I Historic Synagogue in Washington D.C.
  • (Barbara Kinney/ BARBARA KINNEY ) - Newlyweds Ian Alberg and Mary Morrison walk down the aisle after being married November 5, 2011 in a ceremony at the Sixth & I Historic Synagogue in Washington D.C.
  • (Barbara Kinney/ BARBARA KINNEY ) - Ian Alberg, left, shakes hands with former President Bill Clinton after Alberg married Mary Morrison during a ceremony at the Sixth & I Historic Synagogue in Washington DC on November 5, 2011.
  • (Barbara Ries/ BARBARA KINNEY ) - Mary Morrison and Ian Alberg share their first dance in the ballroom of the W Hotel in Washington DC on November 5, 2011.
  • (Barbara Kinney/ BARBARA KINNEY ) - Aidan Morrison, age 6, peeks out from under the veil of his aunt’s wedding dress as she poses for formal wedding photos in the POV room of the W Hotel in Washington DC on November 5, 2011.
For much of the 1990s they were among the young staffers keeping the West Wing in motion. Alberg first did advance work for the campaign and later became a domestic policy adviser for Al Gore; Morrison rose from intern to deputy director of Oval Office operations.

Morrison, Alberg and other White House employees in their 20s worked incessantly, and when they did take time to relax, it was often with each other. “It was like a fraternity and sorority,” Morrison says. “We literally did everything together.”
No one else seemed to understand the world they were living in, and outsiders constantly asked about Monica Lewinsky. “The last thing you wanted to do was go out with someone else who’d be like, ‘Is it true? Is it true?’ ” Morrison says.
When the administration ended in 2001, the group splintered. Some staffers, including Morrison, moved to New York to work at Clinton’s new office in Harlem. Alberg and others stayed in Washington.
Morrison returned monthly to visit her family in Arlington. On each trip, she’d schedule time with Alberg, just to catch up over brunch or dinner. Alberg did the same when he went home to see his family in Long Island, taking the train into the city to go out with Morrison.
“It was just so easy to be with her,” Alberg says. “There wasn’t any stress. And we were best friends. I don’t think either of us were thinking about it [romantically].”
In 2004, Alberg’s mother had a stroke and his visits increased. For six months, it seemed she was on the mend. But after a second stroke, she passed away.
“I relied on Mary emotionally for just about everything. I honestly don’t think I could’ve gotten through that time if it hadn’t been for her,” Alberg says. “That’s when I started to realize, ‘Hey, this should be something more.’ ”
Alberg had put his career on hold to care for his mom, and he saw less of Morrison in 2005 as he focused on his job at a law firm and rebuilt his life in Washington. By 2006, they resumed their twice-monthly visits. Both continued to date other people, but by the next year Morrison realized she had feelings for Alberg. “I always wished he was around,” she says.
She worried about telling Alberg. “It was that stupid cliche,” she says. “We really didn’t want to ruin our friendship.”
But in 2008, she grabbed his hand. Soon they were holding hands everywhere they went and occasionally trading chaste kisses, although it rarely went any further. “Then we were like, ‘Okay, what are we doing?’ ” she says.
“So we started to have the talk,” continues Alberg, now 42. “I thought, well, this is either going to work or we’re never going to be friends again.”
They knew so much about each other and had shared so much history that casual dating was not an option. “We knew if we started dating, we’d probably end up getting married,” Morrison says. “And I think we both probably struggled with [that].”
At Obama’s inaugural ball that January, friends saw them holding hands and asked what was happening, but the two still hadn’t defined the relationship. “In my mind, I was like, ‘Well, this is great. I kinda like it the way it is — we’re friends, we have benefits,’ ” Alberg says. “But it wasn’t a hookup, either. We were best friends.”
Later that year, as they sat on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, they came to the conclusion that, practically speaking, they were already dating. It was just a matter of announcing it. They quickly did, and by the middle of 2009, their conversations turned to marriage.
Alberg says he never doubted the relationship but wasn’t sure he was ready for the next step. But by the next year, he decided it was time. “There isn’t anybody that I’ve ever felt this way about. There isn’t anybody I’m so comfortable with. There isn’t anybody else I can see spending the rest of my life with,” he says.
Morrison was expecting a proposal in Washington, so last Super Bowl weekend Alberg went to her home in New York. As she sat in sweatpants and glasses, he pulled out a ring. A week later, he took her to the Lincoln Memorial and proposed again, this time with her grandmother’s diamond.
“You’re never gonna find two people who had such a nontraditional love affair,” says Morrison, now 38, “but who really knew each other before they got married.”
On Nov. 5, the two wed at Sixth and I Synagogue in an interfaith ceremony conducted by an Episcopal priest and a rabbi. Morrison wiped tears from her eyes as they exchanged vows and read their ketubah, a Jewish marriage contract.
resource:http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/weddings/on-love-youre-never-gonna-find-two-people-who-had-such-a-nontraditional-love-affair/2011/11/23/gIQASWBFLO_story.html